Kissing

The art of loving needs some attention at the end of 2010, I guess.  Many of us have long-term relationships and these need more effort to keep them fresh and vitalised.  It is easy to be blown away by the heady fragrances of a new lover.  It is an automatic reaction to buckle at the knees when a new flame ignites the pheromones.  However, how do you ignite the flames of an established relationship, how do you kindle the embers of those passionate days?

Without being ready to take responsibility for the outcome, may I suggest the following course of action?  (As my son would claim: whatever - just get on with it!).

Kiss:  Science tells us that this is the primary way to ignite the fires of passion.  We only kiss those we are comfortable with. Yes, just forget about kissing your aunt when you were a kid, it does not count as kissing!  So kiss with clear intent to pleasure.  Slowly and with intent to touch the soul.  Kiss with the sole intent of giving something of yourself.  Kiss where it matters.  

Kiss your special one on their eyelids.  Land kisses on ears and on the nape of the neck.  Brush over hair with your lips.  Lightly taste the skin of a forehead.  Brush over cheeks.  Caress shoulders with your lips.  Find the lips of your partner - but softly now - like flowers touched by the airy attention of butterflies.  Breathe in the soft fragrance of your lover and savor it for a moment, then breathe your heart over them.

Spend time in embrace.  We need to be touched and we need to touch.  We were made for kissing in soft embrace.  We were made to speak in soft tones and to share moments of quiet.  Go into these days with only one intention - the one of touching with deep care.  Kiss with intent, kiss with your soul.

Have a great end to 2010.  

Via: OnlineDating Blog